Brian Patrick Murray

June 21, 2025

CHARLOTTE – It is with broken hearts that we announce the passing of Brian Patrick Murray, who left this world far too soon on Saturday, June 21, 2025, at the age of 41. He was surrounded by his loving family, his wife, Anastasia Speer, his boys, and his family. A devoted father, loving husband, beloved son, loyal friend, and kind soul, Brian touched the lives of everyone who had the privilege of knowing him.

Born and raised in Binghamton, NY, Brian was the cherished son of Terrence and Dorothy Murray and the loving brother of Michael (Erin). He also had deep bonds with his Uncles Dan (Jude) and Kevin (Rene) as well as his cousins. He lived a life filled with love, laughter, and purpose. Though his time was short, he filled it with meaning. He was a steady presence to those he loved, always quick to offer help, greeted everyone with a warm smile, or to lend a listening ear. His sense of humor, humility, and deep empathy were just a few of the many reasons people were drawn to him.

A proud graduate of SUNY Geneseo, Brian built a successful career in finance at Bank of America in Charlotte, NC, where he worked for nearly 20 years. It was there, as part of the FMAP program, that he met Anastasia, the beginning of a love story that would define the rest of his life.

Over the next 18 years, Brian and Anastasia built a life full of laughter, friendship, and community. Saturdays were often spent at Clemson football games or hosting friends—always with Brian behind the grill or stove, doing what he loved: cooking for the people he cared about.

Above all else, Brian was a father and a devoted husband. His children and wife were the light of his life, and he poured every ounce of himself into giving them love, guidance, and unforgettable memories. To know Brian was to feel seen, heard, and cared for. While the loss is immeasurable, so is the legacy of compassion and resilience he leaves behind. We will carry him with us in the stories we tell, the ways we show up for each other, and in the quiet moments that remind us of his enduring love.

But his greatest joy by far was being a father. Brian was a devoted and playful dad to Liam (10) and Colin (7), coaching their baseball teams, cheering them on, and filling their home with warmth, wisdom, and fun. He was also a proud dog dad to Bentley and Charlie, whom he and Anastasia raised as puppies early in their life together.

Brian is preceded in death by his grandparents, Jack and Teresa Murray and John and Marion Lynn; his uncle Timothy and aunt Jane; and his dear cousins, Rod and Collin.

A Mass of Christian burial will be held at St. Gabriel Catholic Church on July 10, 2025, at 11:00 a.m., with receiving beginning at 10:00 a.m.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to 529 Education Plans established for Liam and Colin. Donations, made out to Liam & Colin Murray can be sent to David Raichle, Trustee. 1800 Fair Forest Drive, Matthews, NC 28105. Venmo: @Anastasia-Speer

Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Ave., Charlotte, NC 28204; (704) 641-7606. Online condolences may be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

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  • Douglas Nock

    Brian was a wonderful, helpful guy both to our neighborhood association and to individual neighbors. While on vacation, a storm broke large tree limbs blocking our driveway, but Brian surprised us by having cut them up and remove them. What a great guy. So sorry to hear of his passing.

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  • Lauren & Lee

    Anastasia - please know we send our deepest sympathies and condolences to you and your family. Brian was such a wonderful person (husband, father, friend) and will be greatly missed. Keeping you and the boys in our prayers always.

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  • Lauren Fuller

    My dearest condolences to all the family and friends. I have a lot of great memories visiting Brian, Michael and their parents when they lived in NY. I have know him since we were small. Then he moved to NC and owned a house just down the street from me. He was such a kind guy and I will never forget the memories we have shared in the past.

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  • Coby Hurst

    I had the privilege of working with Brian, and I truly enjoyed both collaborating with him and getting to know him. He was incredibly smart, an amazing listener, and always willing to help. He taught me so much - especially with it came to financial modeling and analysis. Brian brought energy and enthusiasm to every conversation and always made me feel like what I had to say mattered. This is heartbreaking news. He will be missed deeply.

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  • Mario Ruggiero

    I'm very sorry for your loss. Brian was a terrific person and a true professional to work with. Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

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  • Linda and Robert Shumilas

    Anastasia,
    We are so sorry for your loss. You and your boys will be in our thoughts, and we hope that knowing you are loved by friends and family will console you.
    Very sincerely,
    Linda and Bob Shumilas

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  • Audrey Urda (Roe)

    I’m heartbroken to hear of the passing of Brian Murray. Brian and I were cross-country teammates in high school, and I considered him a true friend. He was kind, full of light, and had a beautiful soul that made those around him feel seen and welcomed. I have such fond memories of him—his laughter, his warmth, and the way he could lift spirits with just a few words.

    This news is deeply painful, and my heart goes out to his family, friends, and all those who loved him. Brian made a lasting impact on so many of us, and I will carry his memory with gratitude and sorrow.

    Sending my deepest condolences and prayers during this time of loss. Rest in peace, Brian. You will be missed.

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  • Eric Moore

    My deepest sympathy to the Murray family. I never had the pleasure to meet Brian in person, but he was a calming voice over the phone for me through many years. I truly enjoyed getting to know him and he would talk so proudly of his family that you could hear the love he had for them. He will be deeply missed as a kind and generous person that could always get a laugh out of the most difficult situation. This is truly sad and my thoughts and prayers are with his wonderful family.

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  • John Taylor

    Murray family, it has been many years since we crossed paths, but you were never forgotten. My memories of Brian are with that half smile, which as a Coach always had me wondering what he had just done that I should be aware of! In many ways, Brian reminded me of myself, I was that younger brother, younger teammate that always got pulled into various adventures by "older" teammates. My days of coaching at Susquehanna Valley are filled with fond memories and these past few days have me reminiscing. One in particular I am recalling is being at your home and having that "vulture" of a bird dive-bombing me and having Brian just laughing as I tried to protect myself. I am proud to have known Brian and he and your family will always be in my memories. Please accept my condolences. Coach John "JT" Taylor

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  • Judi Sinex

    Anastasia,
    Please accept my deepest sympathy and prayers for you and your sons's comfort during the trying days ahead of you. God had a purpose for Brian, I'm sure, but that doesn't make your loss any easier to bear.
    Love,
    Judi

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