Adele Roy Thevaos

June 17, 2021

WAXHAW- Adele Roy Thevaos, 59, of Waxhaw, NC passed away on Thursday, June 17, 2021 surrounded by her husband, John, and family following a courageous battle with cancer.

The world lost an incredibly talented, loving, spiritual and creative soul. Adele was so many things that it is impossible to fully capture them all. As a human being she was kind and highly intuitive, attributes that she drew upon as a healer in her massage practice. She was a person of action and embraced new challenges and experiences, always looking for a new project or planning another adventure. Adele was extremely creative and had a special gift for imagining the potential for beauty in things–from overgrown gardens to home renovations and RV interior redesign, her artistic vision resulted in many impressive transformations. She was an avid gardener and hard-core believer in “dirt therapy”, creating amazing landscapes not only for herself, but for others. Adele drew energy from nature, loved to be outdoors working with her hands, caring for her animals and camping with her friends.

A Louisiana native, she was true to her Cajun roots being simultaneously feisty, fun-loving and fierce. She had a huge heart for people and animals, and was loving, loyal, and generous to everyone in her world. Adele shared her gifts and love freely, and touched many lives through her work, art, friendship, and generosity. Adele remains with us in spirit and will forever live on through the landscapes she created, the lessons she taught us, and the fond memories that we will never forget.

Adele leaves behind her husband, John; stepson, Theo and his wife, Christina; two grandchildren, JT and Aubrey. She is also survived by her four siblings, Chip, Jacques, David and Camille and many nieces and nephews, a large extended family and many friends.

A Celebration of Life for Adele will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, June 26, 2021, in the Fr. C Hall at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 600 East Boulevard, Charlotte, NC 28203.

The family asks that you consider a memorial donation to a Humane Society or a Nature Conservancy.

Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Ave., Charlotte, NC 28204; (704) 641-7606. Online condolences can be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

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  • Katherine M. Callahan

    I'm speechless. You were such a light in this world and to everyone who was honored enough to meet you. I will never forget your hugs in Rad Tech school! May your memory be eternal.

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  • Helen M Kjos

    Heaven became a more beautiful place when God called Adele home. Love to you and your family, Johnny. xoxo

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  • Betsy Harrington

    Adele was an amazing massage therapist who made a huge difference in my life. She was a sensitive, caring friend, a gentle spirit, an all around fantastic person. The world has lost one of its best!

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  • Jim and BarbarabCopses

    Please accept our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy on the passing of Adele..We are so sorry.May she Rest In Peace in a beautiful place where there is no suffering or pain..God Bless…

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  • Leisa Kennedy

    Adele and I were neighbors in Louisiana for several years during some of the best years of my life. We lived next to a wooded area, thick with pine trees and plenty of hills and bayous to explore, and we would hit the pavement on our bikes as soon as we got home from school several days a week and often ride until supper time. We had sleepovers, we cooked together -- as much as 11-year-olds cook -- and had as much fun as a pre-teen kid could have. The minute Adele and her family moved in, she let me know that she was a tomboy and that I needed to buck up and follow suit. I was never as tough as she wanted me to be, but I sure tried. We had unforgettable snow days together with sleds fashioned from cardboard and hot cocoa to drink when we came inside. One of my best memories ever was when Adele and I were walking on top of the decent-sized hill between her house and mine after dark when there was about two inches of snow on the ground -- enough to cover everything -- and the snow was really coming down. Our houses were far from the road, but no one was traveling on them anyway. The moon was bright, we were surrounded by pine trees and the only thing we could hear was the wind. Even as an 11- or 12-year-old girl, she had the forethought to stop me in my tracks and say "shhhh -- just listen." It was breathtaking -- it was a winter wonderland in a tiny town in Louisiana. I remember standing there for nearly five minutes, watching the snow fall and taking it all in. Over the years, I have thought about that moment time and again, and felt so very grateful that she caused us to stop and experience that magical moment. I kept that to myself for many years as I felt certain she wouldn't remember it, but one day just a few years ago, I decided to bring it up. Not only did she remember it, but she said she had also thought about that moment on more than one occasion. I am grateful for all that Adele taught me when we were kids, her loyal friendship and the special things she did. She went to camp for several summers in North Carolina, and one year while she was there she made me an 8-track tape holder, painted a cobalt blue with my name in red and yellow on one side. It was awesome -- I wish I still had it.
    Even though I had not seen her in years, we talked once or twice a year, and we were always able to pick up right where we left off. I'm so happy that Adele was so loved by Johnny, her fur babies and all of you who surrounded her with such love and care. While I won't be able to make it to North Carolina on Saturday, please know that I will be there in spirit and will be sending comforting prayers your way. Sending special hugs to David, Jacques, Cammie and Chip.
    Leisa

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  • Harding Cranford

    SO very blessed to know Adele and her family-- she definitely brightened up a room and radiated warmth towards everyone in her path.

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  • Elizabeth Climer

    Dear Adele, heaven has gained a beautiful angel. May your soul soar. Smile down upon us and help dry our tears that come with the fragility of grief. We love and miss you!! May God hold Johnny and your family and friends in his loving arms during this difficult time.

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